“It’s all one huge spaghetti noodle of a month,” I stated.
My pal Laura Kate and I had been sitting by the river, speaking about how our unbiased examine initiatives had been going. At three weeks into the month-long challenge, we had been on the level the place it was time to start out placing all of the items collectively. As we did so, we had been coming to phrases with the methods our initiatives weren’t going precisely as we needed. Laura Kate informed me she was working to simply accept that her challenge isn’t going to end in a big analysis discovering. However, she stated, she’s realizing that’s okay. She stated that doing this challenge has acquired her considering lots about what she’ll be doing sooner or later. Though she nonetheless doesn’t have a transparent reply to that query, right here she’s studying extra about herself and how much work she’s most suited to.
I agreed. Being right here in Villaflora had additionally been turning my thoughts to the longer term. Like my Laura Kate, a part of that has been because of my challenge itself, which has sparked ponderings about what my work after school will appear to be. Added to that’s the truth that, in contrast to in Quito, I even have a variety of selection right here about what my life exterior of labor/faculty seems to be like: the place I am going, what I do, and the way I spend my time. Right here, I’m now not a pupil in a programmed group schedule, however dwell a life extra much like a younger grownup skilled (with some notable exceptions, in fact). Additionally seemingly contributing to my future-focused ponderings are textual content conversations with mates again dwelling who’re seniors who’re graduating. I’m realizing that’s going to be me in a 12 months. This “future” isn’t that distant.
For all of those causes, I’ve discovered myself holding up numerous points of my life right here and questioning how they could evaluate to my future life. To prepare my ideas a bit, I made some lists 🙂
Most likely received’t do:
Get my meals ready and delivered to me on daily basis
Be pulled throughout a river in a little bit pulley cart
See random canines stroll previous my kitchen window
Hear the banging of rain on a tin roof
Journey on the again of a bike
Sleep beneath a mosquito web


May do:
Put on discipline garments on daily basis
Unwind sitting subsequent to a river
Hearken to audiobooks whereas I work
Throw my fruit peels within the yard
Stay in a small home on my own
Play with my neighbors’ little children
Eat large quantities of rice



Hope I do:
Spend minimal period of time in buying malls (right here, zero!)
Journey principally by strolling
Hear birdsong out my window
Go to mattress on time and get good sleep
Decelerate to take pleasure in duties like washing dishes
Eat meals grown domestically
Spend time in group facilities
Have a superb pal to debrief my day with



Hope I do (that I don’t do right here):
Be part of a Jesus-following group (in-person)
Spend time with my family and friends (in-person)
Have coworkers/ don’t work fully alone (in-person…. do you sense a theme? 🙂
Do work that’s extra related for my neighbors
Have entry to a library (bodily books!)
Cook dinner
My guess is that you simply get a way of the most important themes. What I really like most about Villa Flora is the attractive nature, the peaceable tempo of life, and the neat alternatives I do have to attach with the group. However, I’m additionally wishing for a life the place I spend much less time connecting with folks by means of know-how and have relationships with my neighbors in additional long-term, significant methods.
(We’re calling that Ecuador lesson #9 by the way in which.)
“However Megan, what concerning the spaghetti noodle factor you had been speaking about?”
Ah sure, I ought to most likely clarify that.
On the finish of our dialog by the river, after Laura Kate and I had every shared a little bit of our reflections on our time in Villaflora up to now, I attempted to sum up how the month felt to me. I landed on “one huge spaghetti noodle of a month,” which is to say, an experiment. My household makes use of the phrase “spaghetti noodle” to explain an thought that you simply’re testing out, drawing from the previous adage about throwing spaghetti towards the wall to see if it has been cooked sufficient to stay. Residing in Villaflora has felt, in a manner, like test-driving a life. Which noodles will truly stick? Who is aware of. However, the expertise has definitely acquired me questioning what the longer term goes to appear to be!
¡Hasta Luego!
-Megan

